Fur Real Life

I know when people first step into the world of pet parenting, one of the first things they hear about is crating. From my experience, it’s something pet parents dive into with tons of research, crate sizes, bedding, placement, you name it. They’ll excitedly show me their setup, proud and hopeful. I giggle every time, because your pup is about to surprise you in ways you didn’t expect… and personality quirks are just the beginning.

Smudge is a high-energy sweetheart, and getting him crate trained took time, patience, and a whole lot of treats. His owner was incredibly kind, and I’m convinced her gentle nature helped shape his sweet demeanor. Like many pet parents (myself totally included), she started out by lining the crate with plush blankets and pillows. And like many dogs (mine totally included), Smudge shredded them to smithereens. It’s a rite of passage, really, the moment you realize your dog has strong opinions about interior design.

Smudge still uses his kennel when needed and thankfully, he no longer feels the urge to redecorate. Back when he was shredding blankets like confetti, it wasn’t just about mischief. It was boredom, separation anxiety, and the simple fact that the crate didn’t feel like a place he wanted to be. We had to work through those layers before it became a space, he genuinely felt safe in.

Every dog is different, and their crate setup should reflect that. Some pups crave a cozy den with low lighting and soft bedding. Others prefer open visibility and minimal fuss. If your dog isn’t vibing with the crate, it’s not a failure, it’s feedback. Emotional needs like boredom, anxiety, or overstimulation can show up as chewing, whining, or avoidance. Adjusting the space isn’t just about aesthetics; it’s about listening. When the crate feels safe, soothing, and tailored to your dog’s personality, it becomes more than a tool, it becomes a comfort zone.

It’s also worth saying: some dogs take to crate training like it’s second nature. Others need time, patience, and a little creative problem-solving. There’s no one-size-fits-all timeline. What matters most is meeting your dog where they are, adjusting the setup, the routine, and your expectations to support their comfort and confidence.

🐾 Crate Comfort Boosters

Here are a few small tweaks that can make a big difference:

• Swap fluff for function: Try fleece pads or chew-resistant mats instead of pillows.
• Add a scent of you: A worn T-shirt can be surprisingly soothing.
• Keep it open: Leave the door ajar, when possible, to build trust.
• Watch the vibe: If your dog avoids the crate, try changing its location or lighting.

The first time he went into the crate on his own and fell asleep, I didn’t say a word. I just watched, smiling, knowing we’d turned a corner — not with commands, but with comfort.

Even the most playful pup needs a place to exhale.
Here’s to cozy corners, quiet moments, and the kind of care that meets dogs where they are.